Here is a terrific example of generational lexicon and ever-widening communication schisms.
NOTE: It can be persuasiely argued that “hooking up” today means a casual sexual encounter /1. So, this can be a problem for a legitimate business perspective.
Here is an extreme example… We recently presented an candidate to Google for an Quality Assurance Director level position. The candidate was 45 year old male and was progressing well through the typical Google gauntlet interview process. But, when he attempted to confirm a meeting with a female manager who happened to be 32 years old, the candidate suggested that they “hook up” off campus. This was completely innocent. But, a generation schism occurred and the female manager (who is actually very bright) was offended. Although she understood the situation for what it was, she quickly came to the conclusion that the candidate would not be a cultural fit at Google.
So… My opinion is that its best to say “lets connect” if you want to meet with someone (especially if you are within hearing distance of someone 35 years of age or younger).
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1/ “Unhooked”, a book by Washington Post Columnist Laura Sessions Stepp
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